Enjoying that anger vent and want some more detail (and some brain sciencey bits)?
Here’s my two-pence worth in full. There’s a Part 2 as well. I had a lot to say. You’re welcome.
Part 2 https://www.cloreleadership.org/resources/anger-motivator-change

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